Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Hello Friends and Family!

We are alive and doing well!

I am just now getting around to letting you see how we are doing this past week, as I was picking myself up off the ground last week and brushing the dirt from my face from being knocked over the head with a cast iron pan called "culture shock".  Boy, it hit me hard in the first 10 days. I am fine now, but it doesn't matter that I have visited here once.....twice......thrice.......FOUR times in the past decade (making this trip number five)........put this American woman in a former Soviet Union country and wide-eyed societal shock is what she gets every time!  Who wants to visit?

By now we are settled into our dorm suite at LCC. Our suite consists of a two room, bathroom and kitchenette/foyer area. We have an all day and night pass to a communal kitchen and living area in which we do all of our cooking and hanging out. We basically have it to ourselves, with only a handful of people sporadically popping in to use the area. We were under the expectation of having to share the space with students once they return to campus at the end of next week, but as it turns out, it is strictly a faculty hall, thank goodness! The campus is nice, very clean and simple. The boys have plenty of things to do around here with ping pong, pool table, gym and workout room. We are giving them a really good taste of what it is like being in a college dorm, 15 years early (minus a rigorous college course schedule). Crish has often declared that he has just had the "best day of his life!" Today he also reported that he likes life better here (indicating that he is currently having fun).

Before coming to Lithuania we stayed 2 nights with Jekabs' parents. We had an after-Christmas celebration and enjoyed the day with Peteris and Naomi. We also attended an extended family Christmas gathering from Sarmite's side of the family. The kids had a blast running the halls with cousins. The family also has many amazing singing talents, and when they gather together and sing, they sound like a beautiful choir! This is certainly a special trait that this particular family shares together, unlike any other.

We are so proud of our boys as well! Jekabs convinced both of them to sing a solo in front of everyone. After Isaac braved the crowd, Christian followed suit.






The boys carrying home around 80lbs. of groceries. Time to stop eating bread and butter and get our bellies filled with substantial food! 




LCC gym
NBA star Yao Ming has practiced in this gym. Impressive! Lithuanian's love basketball. 








Downtown Klaipeda





Following are Isaac's school pictures, including our walk there on the first day. What a champ he has been. Most of you have seen our update of facebook, but for those who have not, I'll include an update. 

To date, he has completed 2 successful days at his small private Lithuanian school.  We had toured the school last week and felt comfortable with what the school had to offer. They are fairly strong in their academics and have a nice assortment of after school programs (chess, ping pong, soccer, karate). The school houses grades 1-12. The class size is small (he will make 13 in his class) and his teacher is a Lithuanian woman who just recently returned from living in the U.S. for 10 years. We are thrilled, and considering our circumstance, can think of no better alternative then to have him in her class!!!!  She has been very generous with her concern to help him transition. We have been recommended that he be given 3 private Lithuanian language lessons per week so he can start grasping the language.  His class schedule consists of school lessons from 9am - 2pm on T, Th, F and 9am-3pm on M, W with the option of attending after school programs.  










Transportation.

We have decided to buy a 1996 Peugeot minivan from a departing LCC colleague. I gritted my teeth for weeks about the potential purchase of this van, but a thousand dollars spent on this van is about six thousand dollars saved on a nicer vehicle. We'll get by with this for now (or starting on Jan. 15th, when we finally get ownership of it and the apartment we are renting).  It runs quite smoothly. I took it out for a spin the other day and had a bit of fun driving it around (shift stick). Advertising Plug: My very nice 2004 Cadillac Escalade is still parked in Tulsa, Ok if anyone fancies that for a family car! It feels and looks quite luxurious inside and is in excellent condition with 96K miles.

Peugeot. Here she is! 
She needs a name now that she will be a part of our family beginning next week! 



A note about my husband:
I am so incredibly blessed to be attached to such a wonderful, strong man. In times like this, when I want to shrink up in a corner and stay there all day because there are too many changes and everyday life scenarios to figure out, my husband is my rock. He is a solid, strong leader. He is fearless and embraces any and all challenges or changes that come our way. He is the ultimate optimist. He thrives in any environment. How this boy from Latvia and this girl from Kansas came into union often feels like an act entirely from God!

A note about the weather:
I believe that no matter where in the U.S. you reside we are currently WARMER than you are! Since our arrival 2 weeks ago, the winter has been very mild. Days are continually in the high 30's or even 40's. We have gotten several days of rain, but no snow. We certainly appreciate this hault of winter during our transition time.


Thanks so much for checking in and following along with us! And thank you for your many messages on Facebook. We appreciate the communication!

Stay warm, America!!!!

April









6 comments:

  1. What a wonderful way to start my day with your open, honest and inspiring blog. You and your family are meant for greatness. I told my mom about your blog and she now knows why I am so fond of your family. Can't wait to follow you through your journey.

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    1. Hi Joyce! Thanks so much for your comment! I love hearing from you. I had always hoped your mom would have made it down to Texas, so I could have met her. We all miss you. As I become more familiar here, I'll have to pick up some interesting spice or something to send to you.

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  2. April,
    I am so happy to hear about your experiences. When I read your blog it brings back so many memories for me. I remember thinking how hard it was the first 6 weeks for me. And when life stopped feeling like vacation and started feeling like home was also very hard. Winters are hard in Klaipeda but summers are amazing. The trouble with the faculty at LCC is that most leave for the USA during the best part of the year. If I could recommend sticking around in July and August the city transforms with things to do and a beach near by. I don't know if you have found City Church yet but they meet in Melnerage http://www.m-b.lt/ but they have a wonderful kids program and the preacher is fluent in English and is a dear friend of mine. I believe he and Jekabs would be very compatable. Also if you haven't tried the chese fingers at

    Baras "Senamiestis", that's official name of that place. Here's their facebook page: https://m.facebook.com/pages/Baras-Senamiestis/222086984533551?id=222086984533551&_rdr

    you have been missing out. They have cheese only and cheese with chicken. I suggest both.
    Don't hesitate to write daniel.weston2@gmail.com if you have any questions or need any suggestions. I can't wait to get back to Klaipeda. We are hoping to come in the spring.

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    1. Hi Dan,

      Thanks for your note of very good information! I always thought it was crazy to depart in the summer and miss out on the most wonderful season here (especially after enduring a winter), but I suppose it is also the most convenient time to travel.

      I hope you and your family make it here this spring. I look forward to meeting your wife and son.

      We just attended City Church on Sunday. We spoke with the pastor, briefly. He seems like a terrific guy. Jekabs also has met his wife at LCC.

      Keep in touch about your potential travel plans!

      April

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  3. Joyce - great to hear from you. We miss you guys being just down the street from us. I also love April's honest writing and wish she would write more! :)
    (Jekabs)

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  4. Thanks for the recommendations, Dan! We will have to check it out soon. I do hope you guys make it out here in the Spring; we could meet then and go fishing like the old days, haha!
    (Jekabs)

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